SEX DISCOVERY
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SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
Sexual intercourse, or coitus or copulation, is principally the insertion and thrusting of the penis, usually when erect, into the vagina for sexual pleasure, reproduction, or both. This is also known as vaginal intercourse or vaginal sex.
Source: Wikipedia
Source: Wikipedia
Polyamory
Polyamory (or being poly) means having multiple beloveds (as opposed to "monogamy" -- one marital partner -- or "polygamy" -- multiple marital partners). The word "polyamory" has a different meaning than sexual profligacy, open marriages, and swinging in that polyamory typically refers to having multiple long-term lovers, all of whom know about (though they may or may not be mutually intimate with) each other. The emphases on openness of communication and balancing the multiple commitments is the key feature that distinguishes polyamory from other forms of multiple partnering.
Often, one's closest lover is called one's primary, with other lovers being called secondaries. Many successful polyamorous relationships revolve around a centrally strong primary commitment, one that may even have started off being monogamous and only gradually extended to include others. However, polyamorous relationships have other expressions as well. One form of polyamory is amongst folks who have egalitarian relationships within small groups of three or four people, occasionally even living together as a group. "Open marriages" can also be forms of polyamory if the outside lovers are long-term and know each other; the dividing line is not clear-cut.
Polyamory in principle has nothing to do with BDSM. Polyamory and monogamy are simply two different alternatives for relationships styles…
Source: www.albanypowerexchange.com/Lifestyle/polyamory
Often, one's closest lover is called one's primary, with other lovers being called secondaries. Many successful polyamorous relationships revolve around a centrally strong primary commitment, one that may even have started off being monogamous and only gradually extended to include others. However, polyamorous relationships have other expressions as well. One form of polyamory is amongst folks who have egalitarian relationships within small groups of three or four people, occasionally even living together as a group. "Open marriages" can also be forms of polyamory if the outside lovers are long-term and know each other; the dividing line is not clear-cut.
Polyamory in principle has nothing to do with BDSM. Polyamory and monogamy are simply two different alternatives for relationships styles…
Source: www.albanypowerexchange.com/Lifestyle/polyamory
VIDEO: HAVING SEX VS. MAKING LOVE
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A SEXUAL LIFESTYLE
Study these suggestions for a fulfilling sexual lifestyle:
- Stop living for others and trying to constantly please people who care less about you
- Discover all that is good for your life and enjoy it as your lifestyle -- the way you want to live it
- Build the best love relationship for you so it will be perfect for you when you and your lover have sex
- Produce a thriving, comfortable household environment which supports your sexual desires
- Develop a loving, productive, supporting, sexually informed family
- If by your own decision, you choose to make money using sex, do not hesitate to use your sexual power to create sources for earning money and to establish financial stability for yourself and loved ones now, and for the future
- If you like sexual activities, use your desire to get all which you have earned and deserve to have but do not sacrifice your love and compasion for others
SEX POSITION TIPS: MISSIONARY
By Lynn Peters
(article edited by site admin)
Here's 4 Reasons Why Missionary is the Best Sex Position of All Time
You Can Make It Your Own
If you don't find the missionary position satisfying, you may need to fine-tune it. One or two hard pillows under your hips, tipping your pelvis up for deeper penetration, can make all the difference. Your husband can ride high or low, leaning back to watch or forward to whisper and kiss. You can straighten your legs to create more tension or spread them wide or, if you're fit, wrap them around his waist or put one or both over his shoulders. He can hold your arms above your head or, still with your arms above your head, you can grip the headboard and thrust back at him (who said the missionary position had to be submissive?). He can lean to one side so you can caress each other's genitals.
To guarantee even deeper penetration with the missionary position, New York psychiatrist Avodah Offit, M.D., author of The Sexual Self, suggests a slight variation: "Pull your knees up to your chest, then spread them just wide enough for your husband to get between them. With your calves on either side of his back, support his weight on the backs of your thighs. If you want to move you can rock back and forth with him."
"The advantage of this position," says Dr. Offit, "is that you don't have to be particularly supple. Taking his weight in this way also gives you some control, and orgasm is easier because penetration is deeper than if your legs are straight or out to the sides." But, she cautions, you do have to be shaped for it. Some couples just aren't built to fit for this, so there's no one prescription. But you're most likely to get maximum benefit from the missionary position if you start practicing those old Kegels again. "Kegel exercises alone can aid orgasm," says Dr. Offit. "Or you can bear down, pressing your vaginal lips and clitoris toward the man's body." Even better, she suggests, is doing the two movements together, which tightens the whole of the vagina.
Have the Best Orgasm of Your Life
If this isn't enough to convince you there's more to the missionary than just lying there, it's time you learned about CAT—Coital Alignment Technique—a variation on the missionary position that supposedly stimulates the G-spot as well as the clitoris and encourages simultaneous orgasms.
You start out in the normal missionary position but with your spouse resting his full weight on you, not on his elbows. Then he moves about two inches forward so that his pelvis is over yours. With your legs around his thighs, you press up as he moves backward so that you feel gentle but direct stimulation. The key is in the pressure and counterpressure and the rhythmic coordination of movement, a slow, gentle rocking.
"The position isn't automatic, but a small series of adjustments," says Edward Eichel, a psychotherapist who developed the technique. "You never just ride or collapse." Also, when you're both feeling close to orgasm, he explains, "you have to wait and let it come to you—no grasping for it. You have to trust it will happen."
If all these instructions are dampening your ardor, try getting the position and contact right without attempting penetration, suggests Eichel, so that the movement itself becomes a source of pleasure. "It's a shared response," says Eichel, "so ideal it's almost poetic."
Alas, so far the technique has eluded me, though not a friend. "You have to be rhythmic, controlled—and patient," she says, which probably explains why I haven't mastered it. But I am convinced it's worth practicing: In a study of 86 men and women, half of whom were trained to use CAT, Eichel found a "staggering increase" in the number of women reaching orgasm "always or often" during intercourse—77 percent, compared with only 27 percent in the untrained group. And in a smaller study, the rise in the number of women enjoying that rare treat—the simultaneous orgasm—was even more dramatic: 50 percent succeeded, compared with 4.5 percent (I must try harder).
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Source: www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/sex/a64/making-love/
(article edited by site admin)
Here's 4 Reasons Why Missionary is the Best Sex Position of All Time
- Classic
- Reliable
- Completely customizable
- When you get it right—it leads to the best orgasm you've ever had.
You Can Make It Your Own
If you don't find the missionary position satisfying, you may need to fine-tune it. One or two hard pillows under your hips, tipping your pelvis up for deeper penetration, can make all the difference. Your husband can ride high or low, leaning back to watch or forward to whisper and kiss. You can straighten your legs to create more tension or spread them wide or, if you're fit, wrap them around his waist or put one or both over his shoulders. He can hold your arms above your head or, still with your arms above your head, you can grip the headboard and thrust back at him (who said the missionary position had to be submissive?). He can lean to one side so you can caress each other's genitals.
To guarantee even deeper penetration with the missionary position, New York psychiatrist Avodah Offit, M.D., author of The Sexual Self, suggests a slight variation: "Pull your knees up to your chest, then spread them just wide enough for your husband to get between them. With your calves on either side of his back, support his weight on the backs of your thighs. If you want to move you can rock back and forth with him."
"The advantage of this position," says Dr. Offit, "is that you don't have to be particularly supple. Taking his weight in this way also gives you some control, and orgasm is easier because penetration is deeper than if your legs are straight or out to the sides." But, she cautions, you do have to be shaped for it. Some couples just aren't built to fit for this, so there's no one prescription. But you're most likely to get maximum benefit from the missionary position if you start practicing those old Kegels again. "Kegel exercises alone can aid orgasm," says Dr. Offit. "Or you can bear down, pressing your vaginal lips and clitoris toward the man's body." Even better, she suggests, is doing the two movements together, which tightens the whole of the vagina.
Have the Best Orgasm of Your Life
If this isn't enough to convince you there's more to the missionary than just lying there, it's time you learned about CAT—Coital Alignment Technique—a variation on the missionary position that supposedly stimulates the G-spot as well as the clitoris and encourages simultaneous orgasms.
You start out in the normal missionary position but with your spouse resting his full weight on you, not on his elbows. Then he moves about two inches forward so that his pelvis is over yours. With your legs around his thighs, you press up as he moves backward so that you feel gentle but direct stimulation. The key is in the pressure and counterpressure and the rhythmic coordination of movement, a slow, gentle rocking.
"The position isn't automatic, but a small series of adjustments," says Edward Eichel, a psychotherapist who developed the technique. "You never just ride or collapse." Also, when you're both feeling close to orgasm, he explains, "you have to wait and let it come to you—no grasping for it. You have to trust it will happen."
If all these instructions are dampening your ardor, try getting the position and contact right without attempting penetration, suggests Eichel, so that the movement itself becomes a source of pleasure. "It's a shared response," says Eichel, "so ideal it's almost poetic."
Alas, so far the technique has eluded me, though not a friend. "You have to be rhythmic, controlled—and patient," she says, which probably explains why I haven't mastered it. But I am convinced it's worth practicing: In a study of 86 men and women, half of whom were trained to use CAT, Eichel found a "staggering increase" in the number of women reaching orgasm "always or often" during intercourse—77 percent, compared with only 27 percent in the untrained group. And in a smaller study, the rise in the number of women enjoying that rare treat—the simultaneous orgasm—was even more dramatic: 50 percent succeeded, compared with 4.5 percent (I must try harder).
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Source: www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/sex/a64/making-love/
SEX TERMS
Definitions of terms commonly found in Companion Ads!!
-Blow Job (BJ)
Oral sex performed on a man (aka French Without).
-Bare Back Blow Job (BBBJ)
Oral sex on a man without using a condom.
-BFE
Boy Friend Experience: Spend two or more hours together, have dinner or drinks, maybe a small gift, a little mutual caregiving, give a massage on occasion, being willing (if otherwise appropriate based on some good observations below) to give oral in addition to receiving it, and in general, make it a priority for the provider to have a good time in addition to the client.
-Covered Blow Job (CBJ)
Oral sex on a man using a condom.
-Cowgirl
Girl on top
-Cunnilingus
The act of stimulating the female genitals (especially the clitoris and vaginal lips) with the lips and tongue, or having one's genitals stimulated in this way. Cunnilingus is also commonly referred to as 'oral sex' or 'licking'
-Full Body Sensual Massage (FBSM)
Not usually full service; EXPECT only massage and HJ (see definition below), but more services might or might not be available. Also known as Private Viewing (see definition below) or B2B (Body 2 Body)
-Fellatio
The act of sucking or licking the penis or having one's penis sucked or licked.
-Full Service (FS)
Intercourse to completion (with condom!)
-GFE
Girl Friend Experience. Some ladies provide the GFE experience as part of their regular services, while others do so depending on the circumstances or not at all. What it means to each person is a little different, but to most guys it means a provider that makes the experience seem unrushed, enjoyable, fun, relaxing and more like a "real date than a quick commercial encounter.
-Greek
Anal sex (with Condom).
-Greek Without
Anal sex without condom
-Half & Half
A combination of both oral sex and intercourse.
-Hand Job (HJ)
Masturbation by yourself or others
-Incall
You meet the girl at her place---apartment or hotel room arranged by girl
-Outcall
The girl comes to your place---your home, your hotel, etc.)
-Russian
Penis between girl's breasts until completion.
-Blow Job (BJ)
Oral sex performed on a man (aka French Without).
-Bare Back Blow Job (BBBJ)
Oral sex on a man without using a condom.
-BFE
Boy Friend Experience: Spend two or more hours together, have dinner or drinks, maybe a small gift, a little mutual caregiving, give a massage on occasion, being willing (if otherwise appropriate based on some good observations below) to give oral in addition to receiving it, and in general, make it a priority for the provider to have a good time in addition to the client.
-Covered Blow Job (CBJ)
Oral sex on a man using a condom.
-Cowgirl
Girl on top
-Cunnilingus
The act of stimulating the female genitals (especially the clitoris and vaginal lips) with the lips and tongue, or having one's genitals stimulated in this way. Cunnilingus is also commonly referred to as 'oral sex' or 'licking'
-Full Body Sensual Massage (FBSM)
Not usually full service; EXPECT only massage and HJ (see definition below), but more services might or might not be available. Also known as Private Viewing (see definition below) or B2B (Body 2 Body)
-Fellatio
The act of sucking or licking the penis or having one's penis sucked or licked.
-Full Service (FS)
Intercourse to completion (with condom!)
-GFE
Girl Friend Experience. Some ladies provide the GFE experience as part of their regular services, while others do so depending on the circumstances or not at all. What it means to each person is a little different, but to most guys it means a provider that makes the experience seem unrushed, enjoyable, fun, relaxing and more like a "real date than a quick commercial encounter.
-Greek
Anal sex (with Condom).
-Greek Without
Anal sex without condom
-Half & Half
A combination of both oral sex and intercourse.
-Hand Job (HJ)
Masturbation by yourself or others
-Incall
You meet the girl at her place---apartment or hotel room arranged by girl
-Outcall
The girl comes to your place---your home, your hotel, etc.)
-Russian
Penis between girl's breasts until completion.
KEGEL eXERCISE = BETTER ORGASM
You're most likely to get maximum benefit from the missionary position if you start practicing those old Kegels again. "Kegel exercises alone can aid orgasm," says Dr. Offit.
Source: New York psychiatrist Avodah Offit, M.D.
Source: New York psychiatrist Avodah Offit, M.D.
8 New Ways to Touch Your Guy During Sex
Discover his most powerful pleasure zones to make your sex life hotter than ever
Holly C. Corbett
Topics: sex advice,sexual health,sex
13.1K
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It’s no secret that women have some very specific pleasure points on their body, and hopefully your guy is no stranger to the clit and G-spot. Yet you might be surprised to know that the male body also has particular trigger spots that—when stimulated—will send him over the edge. “Orgasm is the release of sexual tension, and tension is created through gradually increasing and varying touch and pressure on his passion points,” says Claire Cavanah, co-founder of Babeland, a national chain of women-owned sex shops, and co-author of Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex and Sex Toys 101. “Licking and biting with your mouth, then adding in heat or cold sensations by sucking on an ice cube or drinking hot tea will drive him wild.” To find out where to touch him to make his toes curl, click through our hot list.
THE F SPOT
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How to find it: The frenulum is the spot where the glans meets the shaft on the underside of the penis just below the head, and the concentration of nerve endings here is sometimes compared to the female equivalent of the clitoris.
Make him go wild: “When giving him oral sex, let your tongue slide over that area,” Cavanah says. “With your hands, stroke it with your thumb while you move your fingers around the shaft.” To slowly build his arousal, go back and forth between stimulating his F spot and the less sensitive base of his penis.
SOLES OF HIS FEET
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How to find it: “Men have a relatively higher concentration of nerve endings in the soles of their feet than women do,” says Mark Michaels, co-author of the new book Partners in Passion: A Guide to Great Sex, Emotional Intimacy, and Long-Term Love. “There is an acupressure point about one-third of the way down from the third toe, right in front of the arch in the center of the foot.” Nicknamed the "bubbling spring," pressing on this point may boost blood flow throughout the body, getting him all hot and bothered.
Make him go wild: Start your foreplay by giving him a foot massage: Have a warm towel ready and then place his feet on a pillow on your lap. Use the warm towel to wipe his feet and get them warm, and then focus on this point by taking your thumb and gently rubbing it around this spot as a transition to a more erotic kind of rubdown.
THE P SPOT
THINKSTOCK
How to find it: The male prostrate gland, which is located about three-quarters of a finger length inside his anus and feels sort of like a walnut towards the base of his penis, is a hotbed of nerve endings. “It’s similar to the female G spot, and gently massaging this area can give him a powerful orgasm,” Michaels says.
Make him go wild: Your best bet is to talk to your guy outside of the bedroom before you try to finger his anus so he doesn’t get any unwanted surprises. Try bringing it up during a romantic dinner by saying you love making love with him, and want to experiment even more. You might say that you heard stimulating his prostrate can trigger a really intense orgasm, and see if he would be down to try it later on. If your guy isn’t comfortable with you using your fingers to gently penetrate the area, there are other ways to stimulate his prostate. One way to do this is to give some loving to his perineum, or the smooth strip of skin between his testicles and anus. Since the prostate is internally located between the base of his penis and his anus so touching him on the outside of that area can externally stimulate the gland. “Have him lie on his back with his knees bend and legs spread apart, and then use your fist to apply even pressure to the area with quick vibration-like motions,” Michaels says.
THUMB
THINKSTOCK
Drive him wild: Many guys are heavily conditioned to focus solely on the genitals. “If you expand his capacity to have erotic experiences throughout his entire body, you can open up a whole other world of possibility for him,” Michaels says. The thumb is actually a sexy spot for a lot of guys. “To suck on a man’s thumb evokes sucking on something else, and can help him connect his mind and body during lovemaking. Start off foreplay by gazing into his eyes as you kiss his hands, and then suck on his thumb as a promise for what’s to come,” Michaels suggests.
GLUTEAL FOLD
THINKSTOCK
How to find it: The crease where the top of his thigh meets his butt is a surefire passion point. “It’s a sensitive area and could be the reason why some people like being spanked,” Michaels says.
Drive him wild: Ease into it slowly. “Use your hand to stroke him, run your fingernails over the area, then build up to a gentle slap,” Cavanah says. Or, when he is lying on his stomach, try kissing a trail down his back, over his buttocks, and then gently nibbling along this fold and flicking it with your tongue before moving on to his inner thighs.
SACRUM
THINKSTOCK
How to find it: The sacrum is the triangular bone located at the base of his spine in between his hips (think: the small of his back). There are nerves in the sacrum that are linked to the genitals, so stimulating these nerves can send sensations to his manly parts. In fact, some studies show that electrical stimulation of these nerves can trigger orgasm.
Drive him wild: Have your man lie on his stomach and give him a massage by doing light, karate-chop type movements along his sacrum. “Doing this not only stimulates those sacral nerves, but also triggers the parasympathetic nervous system which is key for relaxing, letting go, and having an orgasm,” Michaels says.
RELATED: 7 Tips for a Better Orgasm
NIPPLES
THINKSTOCK
Drive him wild: “If you’re with a man who enjoys this, start by stroking around the aureole and gently tweaking the nipple with your fingers,” Cavanah says. “Lick around it and suck on it, increasing pressure and gently biting it. Nipples can be twisted and pulled to great effect, too.” She also suggests trying a pair of nipple clamps when he’s really turned on. It will keep blood flow in the area, increasing sensitivity and keeping them at attention. Or try sucking on an ice cube and then sucking on his nibbles. “The contraction of his nipples due to the cold can heighten the sensations,” Michaels says.
SCROTAL RAPHE
THINKSTOCK
How to find it: It’s easy to give his penis all the loving, but don’t leave his balls out in the cold. The scrotal sack is the loose skin that surrounds the testicles and that’s what feels good to stimulate. “The line that runs in the middle like a seam is the raphe,” Cavanah says.
Drive him wild: “Gently flicking the raphe with your tongue feels great to most men,” Cavanah says. “Let him guide you on how much pressure he likes because the amount varies depending on the guy.” To get him really hot, sip on very warm tea and then flick your heated tongue over this sensitive area. He’ll lose himself in the new feelings, and novelty can make for more powerful orgasms.
http://www.shape.com/lifestyle/sex-and-love/8-new-ways-touch-your-guy-during-sex
Discover his most powerful pleasure zones to make your sex life hotter than ever
Holly C. Corbett
Topics: sex advice,sexual health,sex
13.1K
SHARES
It’s no secret that women have some very specific pleasure points on their body, and hopefully your guy is no stranger to the clit and G-spot. Yet you might be surprised to know that the male body also has particular trigger spots that—when stimulated—will send him over the edge. “Orgasm is the release of sexual tension, and tension is created through gradually increasing and varying touch and pressure on his passion points,” says Claire Cavanah, co-founder of Babeland, a national chain of women-owned sex shops, and co-author of Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex and Sex Toys 101. “Licking and biting with your mouth, then adding in heat or cold sensations by sucking on an ice cube or drinking hot tea will drive him wild.” To find out where to touch him to make his toes curl, click through our hot list.
THE F SPOT
THINKSTOCK
How to find it: The frenulum is the spot where the glans meets the shaft on the underside of the penis just below the head, and the concentration of nerve endings here is sometimes compared to the female equivalent of the clitoris.
Make him go wild: “When giving him oral sex, let your tongue slide over that area,” Cavanah says. “With your hands, stroke it with your thumb while you move your fingers around the shaft.” To slowly build his arousal, go back and forth between stimulating his F spot and the less sensitive base of his penis.
SOLES OF HIS FEET
THINKSTOCK
How to find it: “Men have a relatively higher concentration of nerve endings in the soles of their feet than women do,” says Mark Michaels, co-author of the new book Partners in Passion: A Guide to Great Sex, Emotional Intimacy, and Long-Term Love. “There is an acupressure point about one-third of the way down from the third toe, right in front of the arch in the center of the foot.” Nicknamed the "bubbling spring," pressing on this point may boost blood flow throughout the body, getting him all hot and bothered.
Make him go wild: Start your foreplay by giving him a foot massage: Have a warm towel ready and then place his feet on a pillow on your lap. Use the warm towel to wipe his feet and get them warm, and then focus on this point by taking your thumb and gently rubbing it around this spot as a transition to a more erotic kind of rubdown.
THE P SPOT
THINKSTOCK
How to find it: The male prostrate gland, which is located about three-quarters of a finger length inside his anus and feels sort of like a walnut towards the base of his penis, is a hotbed of nerve endings. “It’s similar to the female G spot, and gently massaging this area can give him a powerful orgasm,” Michaels says.
Make him go wild: Your best bet is to talk to your guy outside of the bedroom before you try to finger his anus so he doesn’t get any unwanted surprises. Try bringing it up during a romantic dinner by saying you love making love with him, and want to experiment even more. You might say that you heard stimulating his prostrate can trigger a really intense orgasm, and see if he would be down to try it later on. If your guy isn’t comfortable with you using your fingers to gently penetrate the area, there are other ways to stimulate his prostate. One way to do this is to give some loving to his perineum, or the smooth strip of skin between his testicles and anus. Since the prostate is internally located between the base of his penis and his anus so touching him on the outside of that area can externally stimulate the gland. “Have him lie on his back with his knees bend and legs spread apart, and then use your fist to apply even pressure to the area with quick vibration-like motions,” Michaels says.
THUMB
THINKSTOCK
Drive him wild: Many guys are heavily conditioned to focus solely on the genitals. “If you expand his capacity to have erotic experiences throughout his entire body, you can open up a whole other world of possibility for him,” Michaels says. The thumb is actually a sexy spot for a lot of guys. “To suck on a man’s thumb evokes sucking on something else, and can help him connect his mind and body during lovemaking. Start off foreplay by gazing into his eyes as you kiss his hands, and then suck on his thumb as a promise for what’s to come,” Michaels suggests.
GLUTEAL FOLD
THINKSTOCK
How to find it: The crease where the top of his thigh meets his butt is a surefire passion point. “It’s a sensitive area and could be the reason why some people like being spanked,” Michaels says.
Drive him wild: Ease into it slowly. “Use your hand to stroke him, run your fingernails over the area, then build up to a gentle slap,” Cavanah says. Or, when he is lying on his stomach, try kissing a trail down his back, over his buttocks, and then gently nibbling along this fold and flicking it with your tongue before moving on to his inner thighs.
SACRUM
THINKSTOCK
How to find it: The sacrum is the triangular bone located at the base of his spine in between his hips (think: the small of his back). There are nerves in the sacrum that are linked to the genitals, so stimulating these nerves can send sensations to his manly parts. In fact, some studies show that electrical stimulation of these nerves can trigger orgasm.
Drive him wild: Have your man lie on his stomach and give him a massage by doing light, karate-chop type movements along his sacrum. “Doing this not only stimulates those sacral nerves, but also triggers the parasympathetic nervous system which is key for relaxing, letting go, and having an orgasm,” Michaels says.
RELATED: 7 Tips for a Better Orgasm
NIPPLES
THINKSTOCK
Drive him wild: “If you’re with a man who enjoys this, start by stroking around the aureole and gently tweaking the nipple with your fingers,” Cavanah says. “Lick around it and suck on it, increasing pressure and gently biting it. Nipples can be twisted and pulled to great effect, too.” She also suggests trying a pair of nipple clamps when he’s really turned on. It will keep blood flow in the area, increasing sensitivity and keeping them at attention. Or try sucking on an ice cube and then sucking on his nibbles. “The contraction of his nipples due to the cold can heighten the sensations,” Michaels says.
SCROTAL RAPHE
THINKSTOCK
How to find it: It’s easy to give his penis all the loving, but don’t leave his balls out in the cold. The scrotal sack is the loose skin that surrounds the testicles and that’s what feels good to stimulate. “The line that runs in the middle like a seam is the raphe,” Cavanah says.
Drive him wild: “Gently flicking the raphe with your tongue feels great to most men,” Cavanah says. “Let him guide you on how much pressure he likes because the amount varies depending on the guy.” To get him really hot, sip on very warm tea and then flick your heated tongue over this sensitive area. He’ll lose himself in the new feelings, and novelty can make for more powerful orgasms.
http://www.shape.com/lifestyle/sex-and-love/8-new-ways-touch-your-guy-during-sex